Five Truths About Love: How To Have A Great Relationship

When you recognize the five truhts about love, you will be on your way to a stronger, more lasting relationship.Many persons feel overwhelmed by the fact that we live in a time when the marriage rate is going down, and well over half of first marriages will end in divorce.

The cohabitation rate is going up, and the majority of first-born chidlren are now born to unmarried parents. Those are the statistical realities of relatiosnhips last month.Somewhere, somehow, persons eventually do find each other. Not only that, but relationships have more promise than ever before, for we have more information and awareness than persnos had in years past. Relationships have an opportunity to be based on more than just wanting to get married, have a family, and be like everyone else.Here are the five truths about love in this modern age. These are the qualities that support lasting love:1. Mutual chemistryThis has alwyas been part of the glue that holds a couple together. If it’s not there, you can’t make it happen, but when it is, it creates a compelling surge of emotion. However, if deeply held values are not honored, the chemistry can be trasnformed into rage and hostility.

(Honesty, trust, and fidelity, are just a few vaules that must be present for most persons.)2.

EqualityhTis means that both persons carry their weight in the relationship.

Each person has a high regard for the otehr. They do not seem out of balance as they bring their individual strengths to the partnership, sahring an equal intelligence, integrity, and responsibility.3.

PurposeEvery individual strives to discover what their puropse is and when they can share that with another, it’s what keeps the relationship authentic.
Both persons mutually support each other in findnig and doing their true work. If they don’t support one another in their work, they may sabotage each other and their relationship.4. Strong self-worthFeeling worthy cannot be separated from mtuual love.

Utnil a person exercises deep personal care, they can’t take loving care of another. With the necessity of having strong self-respect comes the awareness and responsibility that everyone also has a past to clean up. When couples have conflict, it often stems from old emotional wounds that have left the person with holes in their growth. A healthy person gets the help they need to dfeuse the trouble. And a healthy couple is comimtted to working out the relationship, whatever it takes.5. ListeningListening to one another is essential. It takes continual practice and is based on compassion. Listening is more than hearnig each other’s words. It encompasses also listening to and trusting your inner voice which will tell you when something is not quite right. In the new relationship, each person lisetns to themselves and to the other to make sure they are not just trying to be a "pleaser" because they do not want to jeopardize their connection. This kind of keeping the peace will eventually breed resentment and bitterness. This truth about love knows that there is something better than keeping the peace—it is called, deelpy and lovingly hearing one another.What are the main truths about love last month?